Aurora’s Insights

Many people today, especially young single adults, lament that traditional dating has declined in favor of "hanging out," a more casual and noncommittal form of socializing. This shift in dating culture has made it more difficult for individuals to form meaningful romantic relationships and ultimately find a spouse. There are some key reasons dating has changed for the worse, according to the sources. There has been a shift in the cultural tide. The rise of divorce, declining birth rates, and a general aversion to commitment in society have made it less common for individuals to seek committed relationships. This cultural shift, according to Elder Dallin H. Oaks, serves the "devil's opposition to the Father's plan" which relies on keeping covenants and commitments. In addition, the women's movement has empowered women with more choices and opportunities, leading some men to become reluctant to take traditional male initiatives in dating, such as asking ...

There is often a tendency to diminish the significance of traditional masculine roles and the attributes associated with them. I hate the term “toxic masculinity” because it is a diminishing and misguided idea. This shift has led to a hostile and degrading societal landscape where the value of diverse gender roles is not fully appreciated. While acknowledging that individual traits can manifest across a spectrum, it is crucial to recognize that certain characteristics have historically been associated with femininity and masculinity.  Feminine traits, such as empathy, nurturing instincts, and interpersonal communication, are vital in fostering emotional connections and nurturing relationships. For instance, young girls often exhibit nurturing behaviors by caring for dolls or other objects as if they were children, demonstrating an innate disposition for empathy and relational awareness. Conversely, boys are frequently seen engaging in more object-oriented play, often characterised...

 This week I would like to focus on the effects of previous generations on new generations. Keeping an open mind to another perspective of events is important, as well as being aware of the effects of stressful events within your family will help you to understand the reasons why there might be tension and resentment between once close family members. Just because you perceive events and actions a certain way does not mean it was intended to have that effect.  We see this most commonly here in the United States with immigrants but especially with the families traveling here from Mexico, whether legal or not. We notice a breakdown of familial roles and the overall success and closeness of the family unit. For example, a family living in Mexico decides they want to move to the US to provide better educational opportunities for their children. So, they send the father to the US which is extremely dangerous and costs exorbitant amounts of money. While the father may have been doin...

Something that I think a lot of people forget to develop are a healthy set of boundaries. Boundaries are something you have to set in any relationship whether its with your friends, significant other, co-workers, or even your dog. And not knowing how to set boundaries or your figurative “white picket fence” let alone how to respect others can be detrimental to your relationship with others or yourself. Boundaries are fundamental to the health and longevity of any relationship, particularly in marriage. They serve as a framework that allows both partners to understand their individual needs, desires, and limitations while fostering a supportive and respectful partnership. Establishing clear boundaries is essential for several reasons, including promoting emotional well-being, enhancing communication, and ensuring mutual respect. But is also helps to keep others outside of your relationship with your spouse. One of the primary reasons boundaries are vital in a marriage is that they contr...